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Anonymous said: How do you feel about pornography? I don't look at it or agree with it but my bf does. He claims all men do it and there is nothing wrong with it cause he isn't actually doing anything. But isn't it still lust?
You need to break up with your boyfriend. Real men don’t watch pornography, in fact real men fight it. It’s an addiction that eats at the core of all that is good, and it sickens me to hear that someone would tell you that.
It is not okay to watch porn, it’s a form of rape without the consequences. And the fact that he watches it shows how little he values you, I suggest you don’t let him have any part of your life; unless he is willing to part with that terrible disease.
Christ calls us to a life of purity, and that includes leaving those things that the world calls “normal”. We serve a God who died, rose again, and calls us to do the same; there is nothing normal about that.
Just know that Grace is always available for those who seek it, and when we seek Christ’s grace, we often times leave behind our own desires.
So in short, porn IS something that almost every guy (and girls as well!) deal with, but it is NOT something that we should accept. Nothing good comes from self satisfaction, and the fact that he does this with you shows that he is not willing to be sacrificial for the relationship; love is giving up your wants for the needs of another.